Dec 31, 2008

Dear Family,

This Christmas was great! I'm glad I got to talk to you all. Talking to Spencer and Crystal was a bit tricky. I asked my companion to distract the taxi driver while I talked in Thai. It was good fun. When we arrived we boarded the boat, greeted all of the missionaries, and had an enjoyable Christmas cruise/feast. After stuffing our faces full of a Thai American mix of goodness, president dodge called for the White Elephant gift exchange. I had bought a huge blanket with lions, zebras, and elephants on it's face. It was better than downy soft too. Elder Ewing brought a large classic looking harmonica, Elder Blackhurst a sturdy dart board, and Elder Miles a mini air hockey board with batteries included. Gratefully the spirit of Christmas is giving. I ended up with an annoyance making stick. It had a string and a box attached to amplify the rope scratching noise that it makes when you twist it.

The ward Christmas party was Awesome! We, once again, had a great feast followed by the singing of Christmas hymns and reading the nativity. Then Santa came. We were organized in a big circle of chairs around the sacrament room. Then the leaders on a microphone announced the coming of Santa and Started a count down. "3... 2... 1..." (nothing). There was a pause and then the overflow divider burst open as a short fat Thai Santa with, a triangle white cotton beard which had a tiny hole in it for a mouth, and sun glasses bursts in with his arms in the air and stands there glorying in his awesome Santa power. To amplify the hilarity of the moment, it was brother Gunshot who is basically the Thai version of Dwight Shrewt from The Office. He speaks English and is always conspiring in his Shrewd little way. It was funny.

Unfortunately I'm out of time already, but, the baptism this Sunday was a success and Sang and Naa are going to be confirmed this Sunday. They are great people. I've really had an opportunity to exercise faith as I've set goals on my mission so far. So many times in the scriptures the prophets tell us that with faith we can do anything that is expedient in us. I realize that with the Lord we can do anything but what exactly is it that we must do? Then I'm reminded of Lehi the son of King Noah in comparison to the Anti-Nephi-Lehi's. The People of Limhi fought to defend themselves from imminent danger. With trust in the Lord they "fought like Dragons." But the Anti-Nephi-Lehi's also put their trust in the Lord and in prayer they let themselves be killed until a miracle of God converted more than were slain. And those who were slain were surely saved in the Kingdom of God. Both people chose their path and put their Trust in the Lord. As I'm learning more about the Lord I've been able to set my path or my goals, and put my trust in the Lord. I've seen Miracles happen. A mission is sooo tough, but the Lords work is the most important. I'm slowly getting a vision of how important it is, although I doubt I'll ever be able to comprehend in this life. But I love you all and pray for you. Keep progressing, and have a Happy New Year.


Elder Lilly

Dec 17, 2008

Email 12-16-08

Dear Family,

Hello! How's Christmas preparations coming along? I received an awesome package from Crystal that had a CD in it with Christmas music (and some other goods). Thank you Crystal! The two new missionaries brought a CD player and our house has some speakers. The mornings are now filled with awesome music that brings in the Spirit. Things are going well in Thailand. I was so excited to bring in the two new Elders and split the area. I think that this moves is going to be the best moves yet! The names of the two new Elders are Elder Miles and Elder Blackhurst. Elder Miles has been serving in Thailand for about a year already, mostly in the east where they speak Laotian. He is way skilled with a piano. Elder Blackhurst was a part of the Thai group under me. He is skilled at speaking Thai already. Bangkae is his first area. We split the area into east and west. Elder Ewing and I are on the west side. We still are teaching Sang and Nah who are getting baptized on the 28th this month. And they are doing awesome.

Elder Ewing and I have been utilizing our gift for singing by singing hymns to Taxi drivers and at other occasions. The power of music is quite amazing. I love the Christmas season for the time to remember the name of Christ and to rejoice in His life that he sacrificed for us. The importance of his birth and mission and the example of giving he set for us is what Christmas is all about. It sort of alarms me when I see people get distracted by Santa Clause. He's kind of become the distraction of Christmas.

But frosty always comes through. :p

A dragon is not measured by his strength but by his courage and loyalty... And by the heat of your flames!

This moves, because of the split, Elder Ewing and I have had a lot more time to go inviting. It's interesting. We bring people exactly what they need, exactly what they are looking for and don't even know it yet. Some people accept it miraculously. Others reject it completely. I believe that if every one truly had their hearts open they would all accept it.
Whats important for all of us is that we are progressing everyday. I pray that we all are continuing to progress. We all have reason to rejoice in Christ. And we are all part of an awesome family with a royal heritage. That's something I think the Thai people understand a lot deeper and easier than I do. Each of them seems to grasp onto the concept that we become Sons and Daughters of God and that we are all His children. Even though some of them are children in their knowledge of the gospel I still learn from them.

Have an awesome happy Christmas! I'm looking forward to the call from Home. I love you all!


Elder Lilly

Dec 10, 2008

Email 12-10-08 Life in Thailand

Dear Family,

Tomorrow is the end of my first moves. We got a call from President Dodge a few days ago. At first he was just checking up on us and seeing how things were going before he gave us the real reason behind his call: he was thinking about splitting the Bangkhae area. Yesterday made it official, Elder Ewing and I are staying here in Bangkhae and we are getting another two Elders who will live in the same house as us. Today has been hectic. We rearranged the whole house, made a sleeping room and two study rooms set up a bunk bed and did a lot of cleaning to boot. Now we hardly have any time to write e-mails, go shopping and prepare to teach English class that we hold every Wednesday night. But, the house looks great. And we put up a mini Christmas tree. It looks sweeet. We've been spreading the Christmas spirit in Thailand. Most people don't really know much about Christmas so we sneakily use it as an opportunity to start a conversation and start teaching about Christ. Yes, we would love to come teach about Christmas at your home. :p Also, we've been helping the people in our ward learn some Christmas songs in English.

I will learn about when they will let us call home tomorrow. I'll let you guys know next week.

So, there is a fruit season and non-fruit season. Right now is not the fruit season. It's still hot outside during the day, and fruit does grow, it's just not the season for it. But even though the weather is still hot, many of the Thai people are freezing. Some of them are wearing scarfs and jackets. Some times it's really nice outside, other times I get a little cold. For the most part I'm comfortable. It's sabai sabai. There's some banana trees in my backyard that are just starting to turn yellow, but the mango tree in the front still doesn't have any fruit. I'd like to send some pictures but that will take a while. I haven't had any time to take pictures! This Moves isn't going to help any time soon. We are going to have to help integrate the new missionaries into the area as well as figure out the logistics of the split. Speaking of new missionaries, the fourteen of the missionaries behind me in the MTC just arrived today. Crazy.

During Switchoffs, where I switched with Elder Hunts, I was standing near a mall where we were meeting an investigator when I saw a random farang couple. I smiled and said hi and they asked me where I was from. "Gilbert--oh we have grand-kids in Gilbert!" (something like that) Then she wanted my house phone so that she could call. She and her husband were very nice. I didn't recognize them at all but I was wondering when she would call home. I'm glad she got to talk to you!

I'm looking forward to calling home. True happiness is found in service so spread the Christmas spirit!
Also if anyone has any personal stories about tithing or fasting that they would like to share, I would love to hear them.

Love,
Elder Lilly

Dec 3, 2008

Email 12-02-08 Miracles and Thanksgiving

Dear Family,

This last week has been a very interesting experience. I haven't mentioned the names of the investigators who I have been referring to yet, mostly because It's kind of private, and because their names are unpronounceable in the English alphabet, but they all go by nicknames anyway so you'll never know!
Tawadchai (the one who had Tuberculosis) is completely healed, and he quit smoking (I think it's been about a week now since he stopped). He told us before he got the letter in the mail from the doctor that he felt great as if he were healed, and he was determined to stop smoking that day. He has been doing amazing ever since. And now he is helping us teach his 11 year old son. I got to watch his enthusiasm as he helped explain to Ode about Joseph Smith and Heavenly Father. Just yesterday we taught him the law of Tithing and he accepted that commitment after baptism gladly.

Then there's Sang and Naah, the couple who had read in the Book of Mormon everyday between the week of our first appointment and the second. When we saw them two days ago, Sang told us that since he started seeing us he decided that he should quit drinking Alcohol. He told us about the effort he made so far. It wasn't easy. We hadn't mentioned anything about the word of wisdom yet. I guess we'll do that next time. They are so great to visit each week. They committed to visiting with us three times a week to prepare them for baptism before the new year. I hope they make it!

Boy is an investigator that we have been seeing for a while now. We had no clue at all that he was a smoker. The member who we brought along for that lesson was a miracle. He is 40 years old but he looks like he is maybe 28 or 30. He actually quit smoking over several years before he was baptized. But he was a great testament of the Word of Wisdom and how it helped him be as awesome as he is now. Boy is 30 years old and he was amazed. He was set on quitting that night and seeing how long he could go before setting a goal to quit. But with the help of the Lord and his faith, and a lot of prayer, he hasn't gone back yet. Then we also taught him about the Law of Tithing and the blessings from sacrifice. He is excited as well. He asked us about our missions. We told him how the Apostles and the Prophet received revelation for where we should go and then we go and learn the language. He thought that that was the coolest thing.

All of the investigators who stay and progress are miracles.

As far as thanksgiving is concerned, I'm sure it wasn't nearly as awesome as back home. The experience was more of an eye opening perspective changing one. The house we went to was huge! It was really fancy and there was tons of extra from the 20 people who ate with us. I sat next to a man who makes a living buying Stuff for really cheap from all around the world, especially Thailand where he lives most often, and sells the stuff for 3000% on e-bay. His life is an adventure traveling from place to place all around the world, sometimes for business, mostly for vacation (he is really wealthy). He's been to all of the "best" places and sites. He's climbed mount Everest three times. He explained that he has The Life. All you have to do is find a wife who is adventurous and not mind spending time with family because you only see them maybe once or twice a year. He also said he divorced once. I just kinda listened and marveled while I stuffed my face full of good food. I would be content living in a room with only my family. It was quite a contrast from the lives of the investigators and people that I visit and live around each day. The thanksgiving meal was very good, but, it really didn't compare to the homemade cheese Burger that I sacrificed over.

To say the least it was interesting seeing what was important to him.

Well, I need to go. This week I am basically sick. I don't feel so good. But I'm getting better and I'm confident that I'll be back up and at full capacity in a day or two. Thailand has the best juice I have ever tasted before. And Elder Ewing and I made a grilled cheese sandwich with tomato soup. The Ants here are evil. One of the missionaries who was returning home said in his last words "If you can't beat them, eat them." I tried the alternative... microwaving the ants until they go to the sides of the plate. Works like a charm.

And to answer Crystals Question about the weather. There are seasons here. Right now it's great Arizona weather but the Thai people are freezing. I'll finish talking about it later.

Love Elder Lilly

Nov 26, 2008

Email 11-26-08 Comings and Goings

Dear Family,
Life is going well here in Thailand. We had a Zone meeting yesterday in Petchaburi. It was a great opportunity to assess how well we were doing and think of some ways to improve. We also had interviews with President Dodge. I was actually a bit excited to interview because when you measure progress then progress increases, and when you measure progress and report it then the rate of progress increases. We had another Zone meeting today except it was more of a Zone activity/get together and we all played some games. It was a good experience. The funny thing is that right now I would rather be studying. There's a lot to absorb and learn in the Gospel and I want to teach it the best I can. The more familiar with the scriptures and Preach my Gospel I am the better. Preach My Gospel is the way. It is truly an inspired book. And speaking of learning in the Gospel, this week we taught one of our investigators who is working on quitting smoking. He also has Tuberculosis. The Doctor suggested that he quit smoking after he was fully (not just partially) healed from TB because while he adjusts to quitting his body becomes weaker until it can heal. We already have taught him almost everything he needs to know before he is ready to be baptized. After we taught him this week he was manjai or in other words, he was ready to quit then! He wanted to fight fight! It was so awesome to see his spiritual strength. When I first saw him he could hardly walk and he had to wear a mask. Now he is up and kickin'. He can jog and ride a bike, he doesn't need a mask, and he wants to quit smoking. The Gospel has blessed his life so much. The power of healing and cleansing is one of the great blessings that we can witness before our eyes. There's another man who teaches the investigator/recent convert class at church who is a great example of the blessings of the Gospel. When the missionaries first started teaching him he was a drunkard, pretty lost in life. With only four years of schooling he had only a basic knowledge of reading and writing. Through the commitments to read the scriptures and pray for the spirit, he learned. His Spiritual appetite grew and he gained a desire to learn and feast upon the Words of Christ. His life has completely turned around for the better. He is happy. He is healthy. And as a bonus he is skilled too. He has helped Elder Ewing and I teach investigators a few times already and he was super grateful when I gave him a copy of the Liahona conference talks edition.

For Thanksgiving this week I'll be going to someones house and eating a sweet dinner. That's about all I know about it right now. There's an international ward in Thailand which is basically the source of the Thanksgiving festivities.

As far as the Earthquake goes... oh yeah, it was good. Eight scoops of delicious ice cream, all of my choice, and fudge. I ate it and was full to the brim. Elder Ewing ate it and almost exploded. It was a stretch of capacity for sure... kinda made focusing while we were buying food difficult. But it was worth it. The thing about Thai food is after a while I start craving something of substance... something meaty. A Cheese burger starts to sound reeeeal friendly. I can has Cheese burger? :D *cough* Anyway, last night we decided it was about time, so we bought all of the ingredients, breaded our own chicken and all until we had an awesome construction of complete American origin. Ohh yesss. Course that was after a little smoke fiasco as my companion learned the hard way that the oil doesn't need to be boiling for it to be REALLY hot. But it was, also, worth it all; really filled the spot, if you know what I mean.

As for other business, I checked up on the E-mailing rules and it looks like every E-mail needs to go through my parents E-mail address, and they will forward it to me. Likewise I will just E-mail my parent's address and they can then forward it to everyone else. Everyone can still contact me and I everyone only it will be through my parents first (loren.lilly@gmail.com).

The Judy Clan Thanksgiving reunion sounds like it is going to be awesome, I can't wait to get some pictures of it's greatness.

As it is thanksgiving somewhere in the world it's a good opportunity to remember how blessed all of our lives are. I am grateful for you Mom and Dad. I am grateful for The Spirit. I am grateful for my family. I am grateful that I can focus everything I have to serving God for two years. There's a lot of people who focus on trying to make enough to support their families. I am grateful for great friends and family who write me, for prayers. ...cheese burgers, carpet... :p

Love you all
Have a Happy Thanksgiving
Happy Birthday Spencer!

-Elder Lilly

Nov 18, 2008

Email 11-18-2008

Hello!

Today I am going to some sort of Ice Cream store to eat an Earthquake. Supposedly it feeds 8 Thai people. We are ordering two...

I don't like posting the number of Baptismal dates very much because the road to baptism is long and Hard. We try to visit each of our investigators about twice a week to help them continue to be committed and feel the spirit. The Gift of the Holy Ghost is important to the max. (that's how you would phrase it in Thai). Plus we give the baptismal commitment very early and they slowly learn more about it until they are ready. The most obvious thing that you find out about Thai people reeeally quickly is that they don't like to reject you politely. Meaning, they don't like to reject you nicely right in front of your face, instead they typically tell you they don't have ANY time or they will accept your invitation and then avoid you at all costs. Which fact gets really bad when they set up an appointment that they avoid when they live an hour away. That has only happened twice, (the same guy). That's not very typical however, usually they will say they are busy and cancel the appointment over and over again.
But I have to say that they do it because they don't want to reject you harshly or openly. There are so many awesome people here. Last night is a great example. We had taught an investigator only once before and left him and his wife a book of Mormon and a pamphlet. They didn't have a phone so the only way we could contact them was through a less active member who actually referred them to us. Calling her wasn't working out so we decided to drop in for a short visit and hopefully set another appointment. This was a week after our first appointment, a long time especially for only meeting once. So we dropped by and the first thing I noticed was the pamphlet open laying on the floor because they were just reading it. As we explained we were just dropping by for a short visit they told us it was fine and they were open. Then the Husband explained how he was on page 37 (in the book of Mormon) and that when he read about the Prophet being rejected and the people not listening to his words he cried. Woah, that's awesome. And then he and his wife talked about what they had read about with the vision of the tree of life and the fruit. Most investigators have trouble understanding the Scriptures with it's old style of writing. Needless to say the lesson went great and they told us that they believe and are going to church this Sunday for sure. And they are going to have a child soon. Wow.

As far as the language is concerned, it's been pretty tough trying to converse with people like I wanted too. My companion wasn't very good about letting me start a conversation. (I guess he forgets I'm still new sometimes) But I made a goal to always testify or at least contribute to every conversation. When we are sitting down talking about the gospel I do great. When they start talking about random other things it gets more difficult. Also we made a goal for me to invite at least five people a day. So, I'm doing it. The thing about language is it's mostly about faith. If I don't open my mouth, then I don't exercise my faith and I don't help very much. If I do and I screw up then the Spirit will either testify or the person will be hard hearted and not accept anyway. Either way I have to have the desire and the spirit or nothing will work out. Sometimes I can speak so well during a lesson I forget I'm new. Other times I feel really weak in speaking. The spirit is the real teacher whether It helps me speak or not.
It's tough tough tough tough tough. Sometimes I wait for the right time to speak, I think of what I'll, say but that feeling never comes. I can't just not speak! So I have to just use my best judgment and testify.

Anyway,
Thank you all for your support and prayers. I'm excited for the awesome Thanksgiving that is going on back home without me. I can just imagine all the pie and the rolls riiiiight now. Oh yeahhh ...I need to go eat my earthquake.

Nov 12, 2008

Email 11-12-08

Today is a Buddhist Holiday. Stores everywhere are selling these spherical dish things made out of banana trees with a variety of candles. Tonight there's going to be a huge gathering of people and at some point during the night they are going to cast the spherical objects that are tight like unto a dish off into the rivers. I have no idea what the significance is yet... I haven't asked, but It's interesting none the less. But the difficulty that arises from this crazy holiday is that all of the Church members want to participate in it. Despite the fact that it's fun to watch and participate in, and it's partly a cultural event in Thailand, it is a Buddhist Holiday. We aren't asking them not to go. It is indeed getting harder and harder to be a Saint. We ask so much of our investigators, changing their lives. We hope so much for them. And though being on the path to Salvation is hard, it is more rewarding than we can realize in our own lives. Being clean is one of the best gifts we can qualify for. And through the Gospel and the struggling there is Happiness and Peace. Elder Ewing and I have visited tons of members hoping to support them, and investigators hopping to teach them. Yesterday was the second time we have visited a member who was really struggling with his Mom who doesn't want him to go to church or be a member and He is stuck living at home trying to support her. He wants to go back to his home in Chaeng Mai. But after our visit and encouraging him he really did exercise his faith and read the scriptures, on our second visit he is the happiest I have ever seen him. Awesome. Last week I had a great Family home evening with President Tip and president Nope-adone, their families, and an investigators family who had 3 kids and 2 grand kids. We sat on the family room floor and had an awesome dinner with som thahm Thai style and Laotian style and gaeng mahtsamaahn and all kinds of amazing food. By the way carpet doesn't exist over here. Near the end of the night the investigator, sister Myoori, who is diabetic, fainted. She was out cold just before we were about to go home. We had just before taught a difficult lesson on Tithing and Fasting and this was an interesting opportunity to show faith and the blessings of God. So, Elder Ewing and I gave her a Priesthood blessing. Just a few moments later and she awoke and arose.
The Gospel truly blesses families. Salvation isn't easy, it can't be easy. It wasn't easy for Him. But there is so much joy in the Gospel. I've only been here for a couple weeks but I've seen a lot of miracles already. And I've also seen some of the craziest things that you never see back home. ..Random rat in the street that got ran over and is crusting day-by-day right by my house, the craziest houses, houses in swamps, there's these skeletal dogs that lie around the streets all day (at least they're not being eaten), tons and tons of plants that I never even seen in books before, a random guard house, and tons and tons more, I can't list them all. Spencer knows what I'm talking about. And I've eaten some weird things too. I'm one for trying them all.. mostly. The fish gut dog biscuit smelling ones I avoid if I can. They only have two kinds of cereal here: frosted flakes and corn flakes. Can't find any good cereal anywhere else in Thailand, or so my companion tells me. There's also a certain lack of chocolate. I think I have some coconut gelatin in the fridge right now...
Buuut I'm still doing well and working hard. We are up to 20 investigators with a baptismal date but we might lose a few who are having trouble with finding time to see us and getting through their struggles. We came up with a great method of getting the members more prepared to teach with us and we are also working on Preach my Gospel outlines that we can design lessons from with scriptures and impression included. It should help with preparing for our days a lot.
Well, I'm out of time again. Stay true!

-Elder Lilly-


-P.S. I need recipes from home pretty badly. Especially banana bread... I have some plans for that one. (getting that one soon would be helpful.)

-p.p.s I think Thai people think that cough drops are candy and candy is medicine.

Nov 5, 2008

Email 11-05-08 - NOOOOOOOOooooo

I wrote this huge heartfelt letter for the last hour and a half and it all got lost! I'm soooooo sad. Oh well...

Dear Family (we're all family),
Hello,
I'm so grateful for all of your prayers and stories. It's always good to get a boost from home.
Basically (since I used all of my time already) My flight was Long and had crazy neat Chinese ladies wearing green Uniforms who served us Chinese Dog food or tuna fish or something and reminded me of Diana for some reason (we would have had so much fun on that flight). Then I sat in front of two Thai ladies on the way to Taipei and being a MTC certified missionary, I took full advantage of the situation. We talked about fruit and Thai food and I bore my testimony and I was very grateful that they spoke English too (except one of them was harder to understand in English than in Thai).
By the way Spencer, I couldn't understand anything the announcers in the plane were saying but I could tell that it was Thai!

I can view the pictures you sent. I can get packages from united postal services and have no extra fees but most other regular companies will charge a ton. And I can listen to most church music that is uplifting and that's about it.

President Dodge is very great and loving. The missionaries who greeted us were all way overdressed with custom pin striped suits and different colored interiors. Apparently all of the missionaries take advantage of the cheap suits so it's kind of an eventuality... Any suggestions? :p
My companions name is Elder Ewing and we are serving here in BangKhae. My companion is awesome. We make a great team. The Traffic here is great. Everyone pushes their way through the white and yellow lines and the speed limit are "more like guidelines than actual rules." It's super humid and rainy here so sometimes we will be riding in the rain (we try to avoid that) and we will be riding in between cars and weaving around traffic. Then the jam lessens and the cars fly around us. I'm grateful that I am doing the Lords work and am in His Trust. The Taxi drivers are the worst. Then there are the Song thaos which are mini trucks that load tons of people in them and drive them around. And more motorcycles than you've ever see in your life.
Right now we have 17 investigators with a baptismal date. That is a ton. I want SOOO much for all of them to progress and make their baptismal dates and move along the plan of salvation! And I still want to get more.
The work is HARD.
I'm surprised by how much I'm able to understand and pick out words that I know. The problem is that I don't know enough words. I can teach the gospel and testify but I can't small talk at all. Which is actually very important to open the hearts of the people who are talking to us strange farangs (foreigners, also means guava).
Since I'm a greeny and I have a great excuse to fail at Thai I've asked my companion to let me do all of the talking. If he starts talking (and he's way good) then they will either think that I'm good too or I can't speak at all. Then I start talking and they assume I know exactly whats going
on and I probably don't. But If I start talking then they lower their standard more to my level and then I can get experience and my companion can save me. :) That's my plan at least, we'll see how well I do!

I got really lucky with my house, I think I have the biggest house in the mission.

Another blessing is that the Thai tastes so good and I haven't gotten sick yet. Yet. Dad's Chili has indeed prepared me well.

I need to go I used a lot of time but I am SOOO grateful for you guys and your prayers. The scriptures say that If we keep the commandments and believe we will receive and ask in faith then we will receive. This is what we ask of our investigators and It's how they are able to change their hearts. There are 70 members in my ward and they sacrifice soooo much to make it work. I can honestly say I already Love the Thai people (I think I said that before but It's true!). So Keep up your prayers of faith!

Love you guys,
Elder Lilly
Side Note: Whats better a black suit or a grayish one...

Oct 29, 2008

Letter of Safe Arrival 10-29-08


Dear Elder Lilly's Family,

I am happy to report that your son has arrived safely in Bangkok and he is in good spirits. He is being oriented by President Dodge and the office staff and will receive his first assignment tomorrow morning.

His Preparation Day will be on Wednesdays and his email address is lillymissionary2@myldsmail.net. You should send him an email this week so that he will have a letter when he checks his email next Wednesday.

Please feel free to contact me if you have any questions during his missionary service.

Sincerely yours, Sister Laing
Thailand Bangkok Mission Secretary

Oct 27, 2008

Photos: MTC Sept & Oct 2008

Thai Elders of District 29A MTC September 2008

After a Successful TRC with the New Thai Elders September 2008
In Cameron's words, "The mini-Mohawk was unintentional" October 2008

Oct 21, 2008

Email 10-21-08 ADDITIVE

+++additive: Also I wanted to add CONGRATULATIONS to Kate The Great and Nate. Phew, you guys are awesome. And Happy Halloween. You all should go on a scarefest like good old times (Spencer and Michael know what I'm talking about. That reminds me of Motor mouth. heh heh heh heh heh) Also, I already e-mailed Mom with the shortened scripture if it needs to be shortened more then let me know. Love ya!

Email 10-21-08

Greetings

I have more experiences to share! Last Tuesday evening Elder Richard G. Scott of the quorum of the twelve was our Devotional speaker. He is amazing! He spoke about seeking diligently to learn by what I hear, see, and feel. And then he admonished us to write down the important thing that were learned and do them. He told us that when we willingly make sacrifices because of deeply held desires on the Lord's behalf, it is then that The Lord is able to help us the most; As we pray we should pray for others. He also taught that when we read and pray and ponder and we receive thoughts and impressions to our hearts and minds and we want to discern if they come from the Lord the likelihood is that they come from The Lord because we are on The Lords errand. And he taught many many more things but I don't have time to write them all. Suffice it to say I was very excited to hear his words and I learned a lot. And when he finished his remarks and his picture drawing of little figures on the projector screen (which is very neat-o) he bore his Apostolic witness and asked how many of us Missionaries had ever had the opportunity to shake an apostles hand. I sure wanted to! And then he told us that tonight he would give anyone who wanted to that chance. 2,300 hands, what a sacrifice. But I got to shake his hand!

Also, as you know, last week I got my flight plans. I fly out from Salt Lake to Los Angeles from 8:10PM-9:08Pm and will have about a 4 hour lay over. I'll be able to call home around 10:00 PM (their time), I think. Then I leave for Taipei, Taiwan and should arrive around 6:35 AM the next day. Then I'm off to Bangkok, Thailand at about 9:20 Am and should arrive around 12:05 Pm on the 29nth. So I leave on the 27 and get there on the 29th sweeeeeet.

(Here's a few more things to ponder that I've learned: the more your audience is able to participate in a lesson the more they exercise their agency and invite the spirit, and one of the strongest gifts that we can give to God is bearing a strong witness of him.)

Love,
Elder Lilly

Oct 14, 2008

Email 10-14-08 (14 Days Left!)

Hi,

I just returned back from the Temple to report another weeks work. Sorry again that I never actually came back to write again. Elder Bryner had an eye appointment where the doctor checked his eyes in preparation for glasses. He also checked to see if Elder Bryner had glaucoma (no idea how to spell that one) by numbing his eye with this nasty urine colored substance and then tested the pressure behind his eye with a prodding stick. When he cleaned the prodding stick he hadn't allowed the alcohol to dry completely. Poor Elder Bryner, ignorant of the actual procedure, simply figured that the burning bubbling sensation was part of the gig. When what was supposed to wear off in five minutes stayed for an hour and caused his eye to swell up to where he couldn't open it we figured that we should give the Doc another call. Fortunately the burning would only last for the rest of the day and in the spirit of being a united companionship we both wore sunglasses for the rest of the day also.

Last time I said that we had forgone English completely. We did that for about three days straight when people began to speak English again. Not that we couldn't have gone on longer but we said just about everything we cared to say. It was quite a fun exercise while it lasted, but in the spirit of preserving what little English grammar that is left in me we all decided that we would only speak Thai for a certain number of days during the week such as Thursday and Friday. The English Elders did indeed not appreciate it but they already left again so, oh well. This week us the Thai Elders will be the Elders that have officially been here for the Longest time. Before it was only the Koreans who beat us. Elder Young and Elder Schulty have gone through 4 English Elder room mates already and finally they will leave before the fifth does by a week. Booya.

So, this week I get to report about another TRC experience. Elder Bryner and I had prepared our lesson throughout the week according to the usual assignment. Much to our surprise when we actually came to the TRC last Saturday we were assigned to another real investigator where we suddenly scrapped our old plan and taught her as she is, no acting, just helping and answering questions. The investigators name is Ess, the same investigator that we taught in our first two TRCs. It was great to talk to her again and she that she had returned to hear the missionaries. She is such a great person and already has a testimony of the gospel! We talked with our teacher and he will let us teach her again next week also! Lots of work ahead... no time to write! Love you guys.

Love Elder Lilly

Oct 7, 2008

Email 10-7-08

Saawaddii Khropkhrua

Today I'm am going to type a bit and hopefully return to e-mail again. I'm all signed up for a hair cut and Elder Bryner needs to get his eyes looked at. Which means we might end up venturing to the doctors office in Babylon. ;) Considering how amazingly tasty the peaches that his family sent to him were, not being MTC food, venturing out and not seeing MTC things will be refreshing.
Yesterday was the end of English for me. Our district collectively decided to kill it. So from here on out I'll only be speaking Thai and a little bit of translating for the poor English Elders who live on our same floor. I'm excited. I've got my Thai dictionary handy and I'm getting really good at Charades.
Wasn't conference great? I thought so. I hope you were watching the Saturday session with open ears because that sister told us that writing missionaries is helpful in missionary work.

-I'll be back!-

Choog dii!

Sep 30, 2008

Email 9-30-08

Sawaddii Khrab Khrccp Khrua khong phom! (hello -polite- family of me)

Thanks again to all who have sent letters. It's very difficult to reply to everyone separately as you might imagine.

Today I report another TRC experience for the week. It is something similar to last weeks experience, teaching only in Thai. Except this week was much better. Elder Bryner and I prepared the best we could with the time allotted. We were ready enough to not use notes at all but rather speaking from our hearts the message we have come to share with the people in Thailand. Externally our message was much smoother than before. Internally is what truly matters though. The Spirit was there in the room and as we joined together in testimony and I could see once more on their faces that they, the investigators, felt it also.
I hope each day that we will work hard and efficient enough to come before the Lord and report our work as our best. Also during this experience the younger Thai group that came in had the opportunity of watching us, all fourteen of them. Yes, that's gargantuan. (don't hate because I can't spell... you too Justin.)

I had no Idea that the departure devotional was even recorded. That's very nice of president and sister Boone to send it to you. Did it have the whole devotional on it? When was that anyway, I need a hair cut again. :p

If there's anything you want to send me then it is best to send it now. The slowest method of delivery to Thailand takes six weeks to get there. I thought that three days was bad enough. :)

As of yesterday I have four weeks left at the MTC. I'm sooooo happy. Three weeks is nothing. All the English Elders stay here for only three weeks. I've seen three come and go already not to mention several others in between. I'm glad that Brother Trahsdahl has been asking about my progress. It was his stories of his Mission that I first heard of Thailand. I thought what an awesome mission that would be. Several years later... Here I am about to go. So watch out.:)

Keep working out Justin and Jared... because I will crush you when I get home. I'll be able to bench a baby elephant real soon.
Love Elder Lilly

Sep 23, 2008

Email 9-23-08

Dear Family,

It's P-day again! Tomorrow the New Thai Missionaries will arrive... excellent. We made this great plan to great them. I have no Idea if we will actually try it, but the thought is worthy. We found that one of our Elders can fit inside another Elders Travelling Bag. So we thought to bust out the Old Orange dot that marks a new missionary and have one of our Missionaries pretend to be new and smuggle in his friend into the MTC via the Bag. Hahahaha! With a bit of acting skill, and some well placed cameras with recording abilities, it would make for a memorable evening. Like I said the thought is funny... we would never really... right? Anyway.

Since it's faster to write by typing I'll take the liberty of telling you now of My Latest T.R.C experience. This last week was our first Thai only discussion. The TRC is about the Pinnacle of the week, it's the closest thing to real missionary work and it is a marker for what you've learned and are prepared for in the Mission Field. Therefore (future missionaries take note) the Key to succeeding here, besides having the spirit that every missionary depends upon to teach, is preparing everything based off of the TRC from the start of the week; All the way from right after we go to the TRC which is on Saturday and start planning for the week up to the next TRC. I focus the vocab I learn during the week, the phrases I learn, and the lessons I teach based on the TRC from the beginning. I want to be so prepared with the language and my knowledge of the gospel in English that I can focus my teaching while I'm in the TRC teaching investigators based upon the investigators needs. Based on their needs is sort of a phrase that is commonly used here, yet it makes sense. God's love for his children is so great, he knows all of his creations. He teaches them personally through the spirit. As all of us have different strengths and weaknesses, different bodies and thoughts, different personalities, we all need to be taught based on our Needs; our own level.

I heard the conversion story of one of the Members from the quorum of the seventies' wife. During which I could see how God was able to help her through a sweet old lady in a place far far from her home. His wife wasn't a very social person and she liked to travel. She never wanted to get too close to people because then she would form an attachment and want to stay, and she never wanted to stay. Eventually she wanted to go to America. Yet through this Old lady who had lost all but one of her children as they were being born, who was happy and hopeful and had bright blue eyes and red hair like the Child that his wife was helping as she made some money for her travels in the hospital she Personally was able to be brought to the gospel.

Well I'm out of time but I love your letters and I am receiving them. It's quite hard to find time here. Because I'm busy busy working. Love ya.

Sep 16, 2008

Email 9-16-08

Dear Family,

Thank you for your letters as usual. I was having a letter famine when suddenly I get pictures in the mail! Yay. I ended up using those pictures for the TRC teaching; which teaching the whole week revolves around. I was able to show the picture of my family and talk about it with the investigators in Thai. The experience was actually quite amazing. It was the last time that I'll be teaching in English. The spirit filled the room and I could see as we taught the Sister's composure change as we answered her many difficult questions such as If we were created in God's image then why do we look different? (she was Thai), why can't I drink a little bit of wine when it is good for you?, etc. As it turns out these were her real concerns and questions that she asked the missionaries. I feel like she was moved in someway by the spirit, and I felt great as we left the room. Now the challenge is to be able to speak Thai for the same amount of time and teach the lesson with the spirit. Yet I feel that the Spirit almost has the opportunity to be stronger as long as I do everything in my part to learn the language because I'm even more dependent on the Lords help, and through him can weak things be made strong. Thai is certainly a weakness for me right now. Not that I'm not learning so much so fast!

Opposite to that experience was one where a simple matter of throwing a ball around at night escalated into a mini feud. I was astonished at how easily these Brethren were aroused against each other and how great the matter became so fast. I could see so clearly how we have opposition in all things and how when Satan's Power found it's way in it came at full force. Our potential is so great here as Missionaries. We are called from the Prophet of God to represent Jesus Christ. The adversity to match this potential is great. We were able to resolve the situation and calm things down. One Elder managed to break his hand in frustration hitting it against the door. It sounds really silly doesn't it? Well it is, but it's real.

Nevertheless I am doing really well. This last week has been the most productive week so far, I think. My companion and I have worked out an effective system and now were getting a lot more vocabulary memorized and using them throughout the day. And now we are the PhiiThays (older Thai people). Next week the younger Thai group will come in and we will help them where we can. There's a sort of approved tradition among the Thailand Elders that involves initiation into PhiiThay-ism. We had to "trust" the Phiithays as they compelled us into the bathroom with our toothbrushes out. They stuck some haggard looking brown... stuff onto our toothbrushes while we closed our eyes. Then we began brushing and opened our eyes. It reminded me of brushing my teeth with herbal shoe shine. It turned out to be Thai tooth paste! It was fun.

As for the socks I don't know where they disappeared to. But you could send me some new ones if needed and maybe some goods, like hmm cookies and cream, and goods, eh?

I have more to say but can't Later!

Hopefully I can send you some pictures.

Love,
Elder Lilly

Sep 14, 2008

Video: "Lead Kindly Light" Musical Number

Musical number from a departure devotional. MTC 9-14-08

Sep 9, 2008

Email 9-9-08

Dear Family and everyone else who is awesome,

Just so you know I have not yet received any mail from you guys today therefore the only response I have received from my lengthy snail mail has been from Mom so far from yesterday. Go Mom!

So, here's the news from the MTC. The older Thai people or PiiThays are leaving on Monday which makes us, the noo(ng)Thays the new PiiThays. In other words in about six to eight days all of the Missionaries who have been here for three months are leaving and my district and I will be the oldest of the missionaries on the grounds. Yesterday and and from now onward we are speaking in Thai Only in class. I love it actually. It's a very intimidating task. We have to write down all of the words that we didn't know yet on paper and then make sure we know them for the next day (not that this is required it's simply smart). I am super excited. Last week I said that script was a puzzle and very difficult to read. Well, it still is by it's very nature, but I've been able to find patters to help my companion memorize the vowel clusters and the tone rules. Now we are singing hymns from Script books instead of Romanized books. Yes, it's a bit painful because the song ends up sounding... much less like a song. But we are getting faster. One of my goals, which we set weekly and review daily, secretly, was to get my companion better at script than I. But then the principle applies and I end up learning while I teach. Such is the Irony. Nevertheless he will be better than I was when I started and whereas before he was confused, now he too is excited about script. I'm glad!

Last month (kee hee hee it has been a month), a group of Thai Elders and I decided to practice singing an arrangement of lead kindly light. It was a great experience putting my musical talent to the hammer. Even though we're losing our basses on Monday which is too soon to perform before a crowd, the experience was quite worth it. The sacrifice is a bit of study and lunch time. Losing study time is no fun, nor a small ordeal in my mind. Basically backwards from past experiences. I think one of the reasons can be applied to the scripture Moses 1:39. This is MY work and My glory. Missionary work is God's work. I have no doubts. I'm here to do God's work therefore it became My work as well. Another interesting idea is that God the greatest of all suffered temptations all of his life. It can't be any different for us. There is no other way to change your spirit, your heart, your soul, in this life than to over come trials.

Anyway, it would be nice if you sent me say 12 more pairs of socks. I bought 24 and brought twelve. May Dii (not good).

Love you all,
Elder Lilly

Sep 2, 2008

Email 9-2-08

Thanks for the letters Mike and Dad! I'm sorry about your leg Mike, ouch. Unfortunately your letters weren't sent to me like they normally would be because the Mail system and the Stores all closed on Labor day. I hope you guys enjoyed Labor day because it was pretty worthless over hear other than knowing that you might be having a good time away from school and the like. Needless to say the computers here are gimped as far as options go and the letters didn't want to print. No worries because my snail mail is in fact actually coming to you and you can expect word from me in about three days.
I am doing well here. We rotated teachers because of school and my new teacher Brother Parker, who is very nice, likes to only write in script. And I spent half an hour translating a couple sentences of it because it's kind of a puzzle sometimes. I can't wait to be familiar with the puzzle so that I can actually read it. But GTG!
Love,
Elder Lilly

Aug 26, 2008

Email 8-26-08

I have only 18 mins to write....l Go!
So, firstly to mom, the date you sent me is great but I have absolutely no idea if I actually got the shots then or not so I'm not sure if that will be useful or not. Secondly my favorite scripture is Alma 7:23-24

Greetings once again,
I am doing great minus the fact that I have been sick for the past four days. No worries, I'm getting better. It's hard to heal when there's so much going on all the time but I survive. And my companion Elder Bryner helped give me a priesthood blessing. How cool! Elder Bryner is from Delta Utah. I suppose it's more of a hick town area of Utah consisting of a lot of farmers. He however doesn't like the stereotype and is more of a mechanic himself. His dad is an engineer in some kind of place somewhere. I don't remember. But Elder Bryner loves Cars and mountain biking and Cars again.
As for the rest of my room mates Elder Evans and Elder Nelson, they are great people too. We have more of a room mate companionship prayer than a companionship prayer. Elder Evans was assigned the district leader and is appropriately very dull in writing. In fact it seems that nobody else has anything to write about in their journals except me. They always ask me what special happened during the day and I give them a few things and they finish. While I write in my (Novel) book and hurry scurry to get to bed on-time. They all think I'm a riot, since I can quote almost every line from tons of movies and have the impression down "perfectly." Not to mention I am about the opposite from them in most things, for instance... They all want to get married three or four years after their missions, and have kids much later. I want to get married when I get home! And I love kids. :D They don't like writing or singing, I do. They all get diarrhea off of the OJ and I thrive off of it. You see I found the trick to eating the food is that all of the food gives you constipation and bloating and is an intestinal disaster but the Juice counters it! So I drink a balance of juice with the meal and I can survive this MTC food. Crazy huh? Spencer gave me the idea when he told me (way back when) that the rumors of the OJ were true and he drank it every day. heh heh
Anyway, the language is coming great. I have a little story I'll save for my written letter that deals with the language but for now I'm doing well. I agree, us Lillies are just smart! :D
Every Tuesday there's a devotional and I was so fortunate to be here (my first time too) when Elder Oaks came to talk. It was a very, very great lesson on the importance of having the spirit with us all the time, just like the blessing that is promised in the sacrament. Make sure you repent and have the spirit!
Also I watched a movie you all MUST watch okay? that is the challenge, use your craftiness to obtain it. it is called Missions are forever by Jeffrey R. Holland. It will affect you, I'm sure. He is very emotional when he teaches, it's great.

Keep the letters coming I need more lovin'

And I need to hear from MIKE and NANA too!
Love ya

Aug 19, 2008

Email 8-19-08

Dear Family,
I Love you sooooooooooooo much.
I finally got your letter to me (Mom), and it took three days to get here. I threatened my room mates that I would talk like Gollum if I didn't get a letter by Monday. They were quite impressed with my impersonation... too impressed. Consequently they started threatening amongst themselves to hide my letters. HaHa ...but really, getting letters is proof of Love here. I need to beat them all! One elder has over 20 already within the first week.
And since hand written Letters take three days to get here and they don't do mail on Saturday and Sunday I would like to make sure you know about DearElder.Com. It is a website that delivers e-mails in the form of letters that same day for free! Utilize this pleeeeese!
So I'm sure you want to know how I'm doing these days... The answer is excellent, with one exception. when I said the food here was amazing I need to qualify... It's amazingly tasty and more so amazingly disturbing to the stomach. It's quite horrible. The rumors about the orange Juice are false... only in the fact that it isn't just the Orange Juice... It's everything. Don't drink any of the milk Michael and Brandon... just don't.
The language is amazing. German is nothing, yes, nothing. Hopefully I can show you a bit in a written letter how crazy the language is but I love it just the same. And I think it sounds great... that's a bonus. It's only maybe day five (I'm not counting) here and I already can say quite a bit... pray, bear my testimony, etc. But I'm no where close to speaking it at all. The amount that I retain is great and astonishing but in order for this to happen I HAVE to have the spirit with me AND find balance. I must study the Gospel as well. Through hard work and struggling, step by step, I know I'll get it.
The MTC is a great place of love and the spirit and a bit of insanity too. It seems people will do anything to find entertainment at night such as baseball with a bottle and clobbering the new guys room and wasting their precious alive-time.
I have several teachers here. My favorite is Brother Saakha. He is Thai and has a great conversion story. He was just a young boy when his new born baby brother died just weeks after his birth. He was left wondering why he couldn't see his brother again and why he wasn't moving. It left a great need and yearning of heart in him. The priests told him that his brother did not have any time to collect merit in this life and so he was going to Hell. Brother Saakha went to school and eventually met up with the missionaries...
My time is limited to write of course so.... write me tons and tons of letters. Make sure Brandon updates my facebook with my addresses and get me e-mail addresses of friends if you can.
I love you all so much and hope to hear from you! I'll be able to E-mail every Tuesday, yay! Also, the date I leave for Thailand is October 27.

With more love than is possibly possible,
Elder Lilly